Why Do Men Join International Dating Agencies

Take a couple of hours and do a search for Russian Women or Latin Women on any Search Engine. You will be greeted by literally hundreds of pages of dating agencies and/or dating sites proclaiming to be the best in the business. Each agency will highlight the magnificent qualities of their women stating that they are born and raised to be gentle, loving wives and that they take pride in how they look each and every day. After raising your interests the agency will carefully slide in the not so appealing jab against western women just to further your absolute need to use their services.

Now really…did you fall for that? Well I know I did temporarily. Damn, I fell for it hook, line and sinker. The question to be asked is why? What possesses a man to search for a woman thousands of miles away? Here is my take on this process.

There is nothing wrong with the women in your community, city or country, nothing at all. You may want to build up a case against what I have just said but in the end all you’re doing is spinning your wheels. The difference between most women in our western world and women featured on International Dating sites is that the opportunity to feel like a hero is less likely. Sounds harsh eh? Well it’s bull I was just testing you.

There are magnificent women here and there are magnificent women in the FSU (Former Soviet Union) and South America, Asia and so on. I do not or will not agree with anyone who says that all western women are psychos or feminazi’s. It’s absurd and a reasonable person will smile at such accusations and walk away before getting sucked into a long-winded rant. Nonetheless, the argument for “women are women” is valid but only to a certain point. Cultural differences, genetics and geography all play a huge role in how a person will look and act.

How many dark haired, dark eyed women are you going to encounter in downtown London, Toronto or Kansas City? How about FSU women with their high cheekbones and long legs – they are not very prevalent in downtown Iowa. The attitude – not personality – of any human is directly related to their past and present environment. This is nothing new to any of us and when speaking of this type of dating it makes all the difference in the world. Foreign women from these countries have been exposed to more hardships than our average western women and their attitudes towards marriage and western men are not as tainted. Truth is that these women want to marry westerners, they dream of marrying a western man and living in our countries. Our women, on the other hand, are exactly like us – they take our lifestyle for granted and they want what the next-door neighbor has. That doesn’t make them bad people, if anything it makes them just like this.

In my opinion we seek beauty and for many of us the beautiful women in our hometown have full date books. The women on the International dating sites are beautiful and available and this presents an impassable opportunity. I say go for it.